Thursday, October 04, 2007

I am the Mom of a 4 Year Old

Yikes. Where has the time gone?

Our 4 Year Old Girl

Rider of tricyles.
Sister of littles.
Lover of Backyardigans.
And chocolate.
And Doritos.
And Baa.
Writer of her very own name.
Giggler of giggles.
Wearer of dresses.
Firstborn of ours.
And very very very much loved.

More pictures are up on my Flickr. Except for the actual family birthday party that we had on Sunday - my Dad took those and I can't wait to get those to share. We had a flaming Dora cake. That's a whole story in itself. :)

Wednesday, October 03, 2007

Our Dog Saga

I posted a couple weeks ago about our family's decision that it was time to get rid of our dogs. Please understand, it isn't because we don't love our dogs - we do! This decision was a long time coming, but the time was right - we have five people living in a little two bedroom house, along with two 90 lb. dogs. I was spending almost an hour a day vacuuming this summer (during their heavy shedding season) and we were fighting a losing space issue in our big family room as to who got to lay play on which section of the floor - the 90 lb. dog or my 20-ish lb. girls. There were several other factors as well, but the bottomline was that it was time to find them a new home.


With many tears, I called around ... how do I put an ad in the paper, what is Animal Control's policy, do any friends want dogs, etc. In the end, we put an ad in the paper saying we had two dogs free to a good home and waiting to see what would happen. You would NOT believe the number of calls we got - tons! That was so encouraging to me, even though every phone call was a little sad ... there were lots of folks out there that were interested in giving our buddies a good home.

Jenny (our girl, the black and gray one) ended up leaving us the first day the ad was in the paper. She went to a young high school girl who had always! wanted! a! husky! The excitement the girl had was so sweet for her new pet and I felt pretty good about giving Jenny to her, although in the end, I had to go cry hide in our bedroom while Travis did the dirty deed of handing the dog over to the girl. These were MY dogs that I had raised, fed, trained, and while it was a good decision, it was not easy to watch them leave.

Our other dog, Sam, ending up leaving on Thursday to another young girl - this time a sweet single gal who had just bought her first house and wanted a big dog for company. I really liked this girl. She seemed like a great match for our big bear of a boy dog and we even gave her the rest of our dog food and sold her their cage. This was harder than letting our Jenny-dog go ... both Noelle and I were pretty teary when Sam drove off.

Now, this part of the story is the whole reason for this post. I tend not to post about too many frustrations because, well, I just don't. Not that I don't have them, but it's a gray area with me about venting on the blog. However, I need some female commisseration. : )

We were dog-less for a week and a half when I got a call Monday morning that our dog Sam had been found in an area of town about 20 miles from us and could we come get him. He was apparently still wearing his rabies tag (thank you Lord!) and they were able to track us down with the number. I explained that he wasn't really our dog anymore, but if I couldn't get ahold of the new owner on my phone, I would come get him. I called the "sweet" girl that took him, left her a voicemail on her cell phone, and proceeded to load up the girls for the 20 minute car ride to pick up Sam. After getting our tired and somewhat smelly dog, I called the girl again and told her that I had him and was taking him back to our house - could she please call us and arrange to come get him. No return phone call.

Now, this is the part that has irritated me to no end. She never once called us. I left several messages for her that we had him (note that we no longer had any food for him or his cage anymore) and she apparently decided that when he got away, that she wasn't going to worry about finding him. And, y'all. She lived a loooooooong way from where he was found. We're talking probably a good fifty miles from her home to where he was picked up. This was not an instance of him getting out on Monday morning and getting picked up a few hours later. He had obviously been loose for several days and there had been no call in by her to animal control saying her new pet was missing. (I know, I checked to see if there was another way to contact her).

Finally, Travis was able to get her on the phone last night and when he asked her if she was the one that we gave our dog to she denied it all and played dumb on the phone. For me, it doesn't upset me that she apparently changed her mind about having our Sam-dog - it's that she lied to us about it and that she was obviously not worried that he would get hit by a car or injured some other way. That is just not cool on so many levels.

Anyway, we've had Sammy back home for two days now and all he has done is sleep for the most part. The girls are so glad to see him. Natalie (19 mo.) has been hugging her doggy over and over again and Noelle (4) was thrilled when we saw Sam and loaded him in our van. (She immediately said, "Now let's go get Jenny!" I think she thought, now that Sam was back, we could pick Jenny up from her extended sleep-over as well.) Now we need to figure out what to do. Do we just keep Sam here? I can't bear for him to go through something like this again. Travis has called one other person that had been interested in Sam and we're waiting to hear back from him, but I'm torn. He's back home. He's safe. He's with a family that loves him. I'm not denying that it was so much easier on me without the dogs, but even dogs shouldn't be treated like that. What to do...

Okay, if you stuck with me that long, thanks for letting me get this off my chest. : ) We could use some wisdom in this small matter so if you think of us, say a prayer please? (And hug your dog today if you have one).

Tuesday, October 02, 2007

A Hideous Beauty - Book Blog Tour!

Award-winning Jack Cavanaugh engages readers in his latest release, A Hideous Beauty, a riveting supernatural thriller that is first in The Kingdom Wars series. This project is the ultimate fusion of suspense, politics, and the supernatural.

Imagine America’s borders have been breached—but not by something you can see. Homeland Security doesn’t even acknowledge this terrorist group exists. Yet hundreds, possibly thousands of spies are crossing our borders every day.

They are renegade angels, agents of destruction from a supernatural realm. They move among us virtually undetected. For millennia they have acted as sleeper agents, influencing human history. All the wars in the world pale in comparison to the havoc they can wreak. And now, one man is about to be sucked in to the battle.

Pulitzer Prize winner Grant Austin returns to his old high school to flaunt his accomplishments in the face of his childhood nemesis, Miles Shepherd. But he discovers a conspiracy of cosmic proportions involving a plot to assassinate the president and implicate Grant as a conspirator.
In an effort to unmask the assailants and salvage his own reputation, Grant enlists the aid of a wheelchair-bound professor of theology, a high-powered Washington insider, and an investigative reporter who just happens to be his old flame.

As Grant peels away the layers of conspiracy, the truth takes on a hideous beauty— for nothing is what it seems to be. Not even Grant Austin.

About the Author:

Jack Cavanaugh is an award-winning author of twenty-three novels, including the eight-novel series The AmericanFamily Portrait. Nearly half a million copies of his novels are in print and have been translated into six languages. He is the recipient of the coveted Christy Award and Silver Medallion. Cavanaugh also teemed with the late Bill Bright to produce a four volume historical fiction series set during times of revival in America. (Proof, Fire, Storm, and Fury).

Q. How did you get the inspiration to mix genres like you did in this book: suspense, political fiction, and the supernatural? How do you even classify the book when describing it to others?

A. Kingdom Wars is supernatural suspense, the everyday world colliding with the inhabitants of heaven. In A Hideous Beauty, the point of collision is the political arena when a plot to assassinate the president is uncovered. In the second book, Tartarus, the conflict erupts after a newly discovered ancient manuscript leads archeologists to long-lost New Testament treasures.

Q. Where did you birth the idea for this book? When? How did it come about?

A. As a student of the Bible I have developed a fascination with the way it describes the supernatural and natural worlds overlapping. It assumes the overlapping is obvious to everyone. The book of Hebrews tells us that we might at times find ourselves entertaining angels and not be aware of it. But it never says whether the angels we encounter will be friendly. After all, Lucifer is an angel. That’s all it took to get my imagination jump-started. I dove into the Bible looking for instances of encounters with the supernatural and developed my stories from there.

Q. What sort of research was necessary for writing Kingdom Wars?

A. Extensive. I have used the same approach writing these contemporary novels that I used while writing historical fiction. Instead of tracking down historical documents, I have researched the Bible (translating from the original languages), read numerous theological books on angels and the supernatural, and read popular and literary works, such as Milton’s, Paradise Lost and Dante’s Divine Comedy. I want to introduce the modern reader to the supernatural through stories just as these men did for their readers in their day.

Q. Which one of your characters is most like you, and why do you say that?

A. Grant Austin. His personality is more me than any other character I have written. I even went so far as to set the story largely in El Cajon and San Diego where I grew up using places I frequented, such as the high school, though I changed the name.

Q. What takeaway points do you hope the reader pulls from this book?

A. Angels are real. They are here. They are active. And some of them are not friendly. In the front of each of the novels I included quotations from other Christian scholars like C. S. Lewis and Francis Schaeffer, who have said essentially the same thing I’m saying, only I’m saying it in the form of a story.

Q. What other books are in the series, and when will they release?

A. At present, there will be a second Kingdom Wars book. The working title is Tartarus and it is scheduled for release Spring 2008. The concept for this book is the advantage rebel angels have over humans in terms of life span. Their lives span millennia. We have less than a century to learn about them, adapt our way of thinking to their presence, and engage them in battle. They can use this disparity to give them a tactical advantage. Think of it as time-released terrorism. The story begins when a fraudulent First Century manuscript is unearthed two thousand years after it was created.

Q. For the writers out there, what’s your favorite writer’s block trick?

A. You’re not going to like my answer to this question. I don’t believe in writer’s block. Writing is hard work. When the going gets tough, by calling it writers block we make ourselves victims and waste time searching for a cure to make writing easy. Serious writers show up every day. They rejoice in the serendipitous times and put their heads down and work through the tough times. Their passion drives them.

Q. Writers say they either neglect something or someone, or rely on caffeine or cravings during hectic deadlines. What do you catch yourself doing when you are down to the wire with your works-in-progress?

A. I do my best to keep my perspective. No book is worth sacrificing my relationship to God, my wife, or family. I work hard, usually ten to twelve hours a day, six days a week. Neither will I sacrifice quality for a deadline. Years from now, no one will remember whether or not you made the deadline, but everyone will know if you wrote an inferior book. That’s not to say that deadlines are irrelevant. Missing a deadline puts pressure on a lot of good people. Publishing is a partnership. I do my best to fulfill my contracts and write to the best of my ability, and I hope my publisher will contribute to the best of their ability.

Q. Can you share something with our readers about what God has been teaching you lately?
A. Not surprisingly as I search the Bible for supernatural encounters, the lessons I have been learning are in the area of living a spiritual life. The book of Ephesians has been particularly helpful. I have been learning that intangibles such as courage, confidence, truth, humility, and patience are not simply characteristics of a spiritual person, they are that person’s offensive and defensive weapons. When the adversary attacks with doubt, lies, and intimidation, we fight back by choosing to live confidently, by choosing to tell the truth, and by choosing to take a courageous stand.

Q. What else would you like your readers to know about you, or about Hideous Beauty?
A. Grant Austin’s use of humor in the face of adversity is a Cavanaugh family trait. We laugh a lot. Our family gatherings are marked by levity and laughter. We laugh during difficult times. Sometimes we laugh at the wrong times. (I once laughed myself out of $800 during a negotiation for a speaking engagement.) I have standing instructions for kazoos to be passed out at my funeral. My family will know what to do with them. I want them to laugh in the face of death and not to mourn as those who have no hope.
I'm looking forward to reading this book - I've read Mr. Cavenaugh's American Family Portraits series and they were excellent!

Monday, October 01, 2007

Amy Grant's New Book


My friend Becky over at Joyful Mother is giving away three copies of Amy Grant's new book, Mosaic. Head over to find out how to sign up for your chance to win!

Menu Plan Monday - 10.1

I've had this week's menu planned out early ... I have limited grocery money so I needed to work on a good list before hitting the stores. I have veggies listed with some things, others I'll figure out that night.

Monday:
B: french toast sticks
L: grilled cheese, yogurt
D: ham-apple-cheddar casserole, pears

Tuesday:
B: french toast sticks (leftovers)
L: chicken nuggets, apples/applesauce
D: Easy burritos, salad, peach cobbler

Wednesday:
B: cereal/toast
L: hot dogs
D: leftovers (Awana night)

Thursday:
B: eggs/sausage
L: Lunch out
D: chicken pillows, carrots, salad

Friday:
B: eggs/sausage
L: mac & cheese
D: pizza, carrots sticks

Saturday:
B & L: leftovers
D: baked cavatelli, salad and/or broccoli parmesan

For more menus, head to Org Junkie's.

Friday, September 28, 2007

Friday Felicities ~ 9.28


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Originally uploaded by joymombecky

~ girls with headbands
~ a clean desk
~ a 12-pack of Diet Coke picked up for me by the hubby
~ a weekend with nothing planned but ...
~ a 4 year old birthday party for Noelle!

Famous ... Sort Of

The girls and I had a little adventure on Wednesday! We ran to Kroger after Bible study to buy Travis some Propel (using our super coupon deal). I had promised the girls this would be a quick trip since we needed to get home for naps and lunch, so I was pretty focused on getting in and out of the store.

As I was loading the girls into the car ... covered in chocolate from the free cookie that they get at the store ... I hear a voice ask, "are you Stephanie?" I turned and met a very sweet woman who came up and said, "I read your blog!" : ) She had been on her phone in her car and was watching the girls as I was loading them in the car, and when I turned around she recognized me. We were able to chat for a few minutes before the girls got a little too loud to politely ignore and I had to head home, but it was so fun to meet a new-to-me friend so unexpectedly! I think we could have talked for MUCH longer as we seem to be in the same age-and-stage of life with kids and such.

And now, Noelle asked if she can "help" me with my letters:
gbbgbgfghtttertfraf fgftgrfdfhgfdrkjhkjyggvfxfcxszzaafyjyjmhfghbgvcghlkuhhklbgjyhghgtyuj hu

*Blushes in Embarrassment*

The missing keys?

... were under some laundry on the counter in the kitchen. I must have put them there, and then laid some clean sheets on top of them.

All's well that ends well. : )

(And, the headache did go away!)

Thursday, September 27, 2007

Freakishly Weird Day

~ A headache that hit about 1/2 hour after I got up and moving this morning.
~ An 18-month old that managed to get ahold of my keys and make them vanish into THIN AIR.
~ Having an appointment with a serviceman at our church this a.m. which required said keys to, you know, get there. [Thankfully, found a spare car key in husband desk drawer.]
~ Still having the headache (see bullet #1 above) I laid down after lunch to doze while littles 2 & 3 napped and little 1 watched uninterrupted PBS. (She's had a good day). And, I was woken by Travis coming home for lunch and being very nice about me asleep on the couch in the middle of the day.
~ And, then I had a nosebleed.

HOWEVER,

~ The nosebleed has been stopped. Eew and yeah!
~ The headache is thisclose to being gone.
~ And the keys are still lost.

That about sums up Thursday in a nutshell.

Super Good Deal

If you like Propel (and boy, does my husband!) here's a super good deal for you:

There is a coupon here for 50 cents off a single bottle of Propel. Typically, I see them on sale at Kroger for $1 a piece (this week they are 5/$6). Using your coupon, which Kroger will double, and if they are on for $1, you can get them for free!

I bought about 15 yesterday for Travis to take in his lunch and with the coupon it was still a good deal at $3.87. I made a pdf of six coupons to a page which you can download here if you are interested. The coupon is good until the end of the year, so I'm just going to plan on stocking up every so often - they make great drinks for Travis' lunch and for taking on outings with the girls for a fun treat. The girls love their "Daddy-juice."

Thanks to Crystal at Money Saving Mom for pointing me to this great deal! : )

Tuesday, September 25, 2007

Fall Into Reading ... the List


Without further ado ... the list! I struggled with what to put on here; mainly because I'm in a Bible study right now that is kicking my tail with the amount work and I haven't had much time to read since it started! But, I have several I need to read, several I want to read, and some that I'm anxiously awaiting the release of and that, all together, helped me come up with a nice sized list.

Fiction:

Non-Fiction:

Bible/Study:

  • Currently I'm doing Kay Arthur's Precept material on the book of Daniel.

  • Also reading through Sacred Marriage by Gary Thomas with the women of W@H.

I'm hoping to get around and check out every else's reading list over the next few days, and I'm sure I'll find other jewels to add to my list! : ) To particpate in Katrina's challenge and post your own list, head over to Callapidder Days!

One of my goals this year has been to diversify my reading. As I've spent the last 17 years homeschooling anywhere from 1-4 kids, I woul...